Jealousy is actually a good thing!

Envy and jealousy have very bad reputation.But actually those are very good emotion!

They show you what your soul desires.

I had a client few days ago that inspired me to talk about jealousy

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Envy and jealousy have very bad reputation. But actually those are very good emotion!

They show you what your soul desires.

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Just somehow you started to believe it's impossible for you to achieve. It can have been social conditioning, traumas, belief patterns you inherited at your home or school.

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But God/ Universe didn’t give us desires to punish us and torture us. They were given to us to show us the direction that our heart wants to go.

And manifest them in our lives

So I would say look carefully at what makes you jealous. That's what deep down you want . The question is, why you don't let it happen to you.

What do you believe about yourself, that stops you from getting there? What society programmed you to think about it?

For example, this client of mine had an idea, that taking too much care of herself is vain and empty. So she was looking at all those girls looking beautiful and envied them . Why? because deep down she knew it's a beautiful expression of themselves and appreciation of their own beauty. She knew they were allowing it for themselves and she was not.

She was blocking her desire to shine, because she was told it was vain and dangerous. And believed in that for many years.

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So the question to you is, where are you shrinking yourself? Where you are not allowing your own expression and instead you envy and gossip about others?

Is it in your love area? Work? Self-expression?

Be honest with you.

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The good thing is when you know what you want ( also by knowing what you are jealous off) you can start noticing your limiting beliefs and work on them.

You can one by one peel off the bullshit believes that you took on.

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Use jealousy to power you up, to make you stronger instead of disempowered, make you see what your heart desires.

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Next post I will write about how to do it!

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